Are You An "Old Soul" Or "Young At Heart"? This Mental Age Test Will Tell You

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As aforementioned, much of the research on mental age is to assess children's abilities relative to the age they actually are. As psychology and brain research took off in the early 1900s, studies began looking into where children ought to be developmentally by certain ages (for example, being able to read by the age of six).

Since then, much of the research has stayed in the realm of studying children with developmental disorders. But as interest in longevity grows, so too does research into the aging brain.

"While there's no test you can take at home to definitively say how 'old' or 'young' your brain is, we can think of a young and healthy brain as being at peak function," brain researcher Marc Milstein, Ph.D., writes in his book The Age-Proof Brain. He notes that factors like balance and coordination, sharp memory, and the ability to get through the day effectively are all tied to how "old" your brain is. And as Milstein explained on a recent episode of the mindbodygreen podcast, your brain can actually appear older than your actual age, too.

In terms of the general population, finding out your mental age is more about how you feel and behave than any real diagnostic measures. Most of the quizzes you'll find online (ours included) are asking questions to get a sense of the age you think or feel you are, and they aren't going to give you the same information you might learn from a brain scan, for example.

Nevertheless, it can be fun and entertaining to take a quiz for self-discovery purposes, and even help you identify areas for growth if your mental age isn't what you'd like it to be.

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According to Nuñez, some people are simply old souls while others have a more youthful spirit, and there's nothing wrong with that. "As long as you're living your life to the fullest and being your authentic self, that's what matters," she says.

But on the off chance that you're unhappy with your quiz results, here's what she recommends.

If you're unhappy that your mental age is younger than you actually are, Nuñez notes that an older mental age will come with more experience and emotional development. You can't expect to learn anything new, or change at all, if you don't get out of your comfort zone, so consider starting there.

There are also plenty of books and online resources about emotional intelligence (EQ), maturity, and personal growth, such as our guide to improving EQ.

But Nuñez also emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and reframing limiting beliefs about yourself. If you're 35 and feel like you're 18, how can you look at it as something beneficial and unique to you?

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A lot of factors can make someone's mental age older than they actually are. For one thing, you may have just always been an old soul since you were young, or certain experiences may have caused you to mature faster than you would have liked. Health factors can also influence an aging brain, making it (and subsequently you) age more quickly, which will certainly influence how you think and feel.

In general, minding your health (especially brain health) is sure to make you feel younger. There are brain exercises you can do as you age to keep the mind sharp, for example. Milstein also recommends brain-healthy habits like like walking with friends (which research2 says can help ward off dementia, BTW), getting enough exercise, eating a nutritious diet, and getting adequate rest.

Additionally, whether your mental age is young or old, we should always strive to keep learning for the sake of our brains and personal development. As Milstein writes in his book, "Think of your brain like a bank account; the more deposits we make, the less our net worth is affected by withdrawals. We make deposits (new connections) by learning new things; As we age and naturally lose some of those connections, there are simply more remaining."

Ultimately, though, an older mental age often translates to wisdom, and Nuñez notes there can be benefits to your mature mindset. "No matter what age you are, it's so important to keep a healthy mindset and reframe any negative thinking around what makes you, you," she tells mbg.

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