20 Self-Care Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank

Self-care is a trending topic these days. We see it everywhere, but it can be difficult to actually practice it. It seems like an indulgence, doesn’t it?

Something we should have to earn. I used to see it that way. I wore myself out pleasing everyone and meeting everyone’s needs before my own- my husband’s, my kids, my clients, my friends, heck, even acquaintances.

I believed that I owed everyone, and if they expected something, anything—it was my job to come through. What I didn’t realize was that this was driving me to the edge of myself.

My inability to take care of myself was keeping me captive and guaranteeing that nothing and no one was going to get my best. It wasn’t until I got diagnosed with a chronic illness that it hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn’t have a choice anymore. I had to take care of myself. If I didn’t, not only would I be unable to care for my family, they would end up having to care for me.

This reality is something I wish women could come to without having to go through what I did. I want to shout from the rooftops, “YOU NEED THIS! IT’S NOT OPTIONAL! AND IT ISN’T SELFISH!”

Let’s be honest. Self-care takes a great deal of what we are so sorely lacking…

Time. Money. Energy.

Let me be clear: being in survival mode is OKAY. There is no judgment here, none. When you are surviving, you do what you have to do. Whatever it takes. Just get through the day—that is the end game. But once you see the light start peeking through, it’s important to start taking care of yourself.

But how? When? With what extra cash?

Here are some things that I’ve tried. These are small things that made a difference in my sanity and didn’t make a huge dent in my budget.

These ideas are not super extravagant, but they have helped me to feel less crazy, less depressed, less stressed, and more grateful. Here we go!

What other ways do you practice self-care that have been helpful?