Astronaut Mom Calls Home From Space for the First Time

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Astronaut Mom Calls Home From Space for the First Time

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February 21, 2025 8:18 pm

Hahahahaha. Perfection.

My go to response has become, “go ask your father.”

February 21, 2025 5:18 pm

Does anyone remember the Hillary Swank show, Away? She’s on a work mission to Mars and is (obvi) very far away from family. I was a busy working mom at the time and my first thought was, Was this show conceived as a space show…OR…did a female writer want to tell the story of a working/traveling mom’s struggles and at the brainstorm session it went like, “Japan? Or remote Antartica? No, wait, let’s send her to MARS. That would be hard!”

February 21, 2025 5:09 pm

I was once running a marathon and my husband brought the kids to watch. Tell me why when I passed them my child said “Mommy I’m hungry! When can we eat?” Like listen kid, let me finish these 12 more miles first. Also, your father IS RIGHT NEXT TO YOU.

February 21, 2025 6:05 pm

Oh my gosh. 😂 I feel this in my soul.

February 21, 2025 3:29 pm

This makes me glad my kids are old enough to get their own snacks. Although they are not yet old enough to not leave chip crumbs on the sofa, as I discovered yesterday with some chagrin!

February 21, 2025 3:18 pm

Thanks so much for sharing my comic! xoxo

February 21, 2025 2:59 pm

LOLOLOL!! SPOT ON!!

February 21, 2025 2:48 pm

This is absolutely my kids, and my eldest is 23! Love it! xxx

February 21, 2025 1:03 pm

Nailed it! Wonderful!

February 21, 2025 12:44 pm

LOL! The other day, my kid got up from playing games with their dad and came into the bathroom during my shower to ask if I could get them a snack — without ever even asking my partner first. agh! um, no, I cannot get you a snack!
Since I work part-time and am around for snack provisions (and generally my household tasks mostly include food-related things), I think that instinct is just so strong to come to me for that need — but my goodness it felt ridiculous in the moment!

February 21, 2025 12:35 pm

But also, not quite funny, since this is 2025 and not 1925…The boy is sitting right next to his dad, who is taking no responsibility for ‘the snack’ but also not taking responsibility for protecting his wife’s feelings and highlighting her accomplishments by not correcting the son. So….This is the type of ‘humor’ I no longer find funny.

It would totally funny IF she was a single mom and her son was sitting with the babysitter or alone. With the dad right there? Mildly rage inducing…

February 21, 2025 1:49 pm

Thank you, my response to most “mom humour” is that it wakes up my radical feminist dragon. I want to belong to the group, but the conventional sisterhood needs some schooling.

February 21, 2025 2:02 pm

I agree with you Hannah. It’s “humor” like this which makes me glad not to have kids. Even if moms see this and feel like they are part of a community or feel like they are “seen,” it’s the fact that this is so common a problem (among many, many, many other and bigger reasons) that has put me off procreation.

February 21, 2025 2:12 pm

Agreed/ Not funny in 2025 when it still applies.

February 21, 2025 2:23 pm

To me that is what is supposed to be funny/not funny about it. No matter how awesome the mom is outside of the home, in many instances kids are not all that impressed with it. No matter what she is doing, they still look to mom to do the “mom” things, even when the dad is right there. Perhaps more than funny its supposed to be relatable to the moms of the world doing it all. Like Kath in the comment above, I can certainly related to it!

February 21, 2025 2:46 pm

Who says it’s not supposed to be rage-inducing? To me, it’s that, AND it’s funny, and it makes me feel less alone.

February 21, 2025 2:53 pm

Um, I think it is 3-second snapshot in time that is a play on how things frequently happen with kids, and not anyone trying to put a woman into a certain role.
I would find the cartoon you described concerning for the child & not funny, & that is ok- we all have different humor.

I did not perceive this to be a man not taking responsibility for his child, but more that kids often ask one grown-up for things.

February 21, 2025 3:07 pm

Thats the point of it …..

February 21, 2025 3:11 pm

Oh, I don’t know. My husband is an amazing father who fully pulls more than half his weight both around the house and with our kids, and they STILL do silly things like seek me out while I’m sitting on the toilet to ask me to open their string cheese, while my husband yells from the kitchen “I’m right heeeeeeerrre!!!” I can’t explain exactly why it happens, I just know that it DOES (and at least in my family, is absolutely no fault of my husband’s!) I think this hilarious and adorable and very relatable.

February 21, 2025 3:13 pm

Hannah, I feel you. Most of the time I can laugh at this and shrug it off as a full-time working mom of two boys and a spouse that works just as hard but there’s always that underlying feeling of “what the actual f?” But we’re not perfect and we’ve definitely perpetuated the stereotype without giving it much thought so my kids know I’m usually the food person, the snacks always prepped person, the dinner person, the leftovers person, the lunch packing person. It’s my thing even though my spouse can do it, i just took it over so I think, many times, they just associate me with that activity. They know their other parent is fully capable they just haven’t yet realized that parent can also be associated with that task. I like to think Astronaut mom maybe is the food person when they’re home?

February 21, 2025 3:42 pm

I think that’s part of the point…

February 21, 2025 5:13 pm

February 21, 2025 5:53 pm

Joanna, I saw it the same way you did. My husband fully pulls his weight in parenting and still, my kids look to me first for most needs. I feel like she’s poking fun at the gender norms, maybe in an intentionally rage-inducing way. Also, if we’re trying to steer from gender norms, maybe we ought to consider that the male the child is with is the child’s nanny!

February 21, 2025 12:19 pm

God Bless Them! ❤️🤍💙

February 21, 2025 12:07 pm

What a coincidence! I’m in the middle of listening to the audio version of Orbital by Samantha Harvey. It’s a stunningly gorgeous book that imagines the inner lives and musings of 6 astronauts (4 men and 2 women) aboard a space station orbiting the earth. Most of them have families and children, and they often muse about the surreal feeling of being in th totally unique and exhilarating experience of being in space, but still being so mundanely tethered to earth in the most tender ways. This comic totally gave me a visual of that feeling.

February 21, 2025 12:05 pm

Hahahahahahahaha

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