Feeling Uninspired & Disconnected? Do This On Your Next Hot Girl Walk

"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science."

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Feeling Uninspired & Disconnected? Do This On Your Next Hot Girl Walk

Doctor of Clinical Psychology

By Perpetua Neo, DClinPsy

Doctor of Clinical Psychology

Perpetua Neo, DClinPsy, is a psychologist and executive coach who received her clinical psychology doctorate from University College London. She has been featured in Elle, Forbes, Business Insider, and elsewhere.

How An Awe Walk Can Revive The Soul & Connect You Back To The Universe

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November 4, 2022

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It’s the start of November, and my iPhone tells me that I’ve walked a daily average of 6.3 km (about four miles) outside of my home in 2022. I love walking. It’s the easiest way to ensure I’m moving everyday, pump up my brain, and give me legs I’m mighty proud of.

The TikTok-famous “hot girl walk,” invented by Mia Lind, is ingenious because it created a movement where people have started walking more mindfully.

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Now, if you’re interested in taking your hot girl walk up a level, may I suggest trying out the “awe walk”?

What is an awe walk?

In a recent study published in the scientific journal 1Emotion 1, neuroscientist Virginia Sturm and her team at UC Berkeley studied the so-called awe walk, which is a way you can train yourself to morph an ordinary walk into one where you’re delighted by surprises and inspiration.

There’s nothing quite so amazing as having a sense of awe. As Albert Einstein eloquently puts it, “The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed.”

When we have a sense of awe, our (sometimes-obsessive) focus on ourselves diminishes. Instead, we feel connected to things bigger than us, and to other people. Awe not only can give you the good kind of goosebumps, it also can prioritize the way we spend our mental energy, by taking us out of our own head. Like one of those high-beam lights switching off, your vision goes from tunnel to wide-field.

And, you don’t need to travel to the ends of the earth, climb a mountain, or seek out novelty to evoke that feeling. The beauty of the awe walk is that you can incorporate it into your everyday life. It’s all about the everyday amazing.

The benefits of taking an awe walk.

The UC Berkeley team studied 60 older participants who took 15-minute outdoor walks for eight weeks. Half of them took a walk that oriented them to experiencing awe; the others did not.

Those in the first group reported greater joy and prosocial positive emotions (i.e. positive feelings towards other people) during their walks, and smiled more intensely over the course of the study. They also had more prosocial positive emotions daily and a greater extent of decrease in daily distress as time passed.

The researchers concluded that cultivating a sense of awe may increase emotions that make people feel connected, as well as decrease the negative emotions which accelerate decline.

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Why walking is so good for you.

There’s also much to be said about the benefits of walking in general. In his book In Praise Of Walking, neuroscientist Shane tells us about the amazing things that happen in your body when you walk. A cascade of rhythmic and neurochemical actions is triggered in your brain, making it fitter and healthier. Your brain also produces brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which is akin to fertilizers for your brain cells. And then there’s vascular endothelial growth factor (VEGF), which grows the blood vessels carrying nutrients to your brain.

We also oscillate between “mental time travel” (thinking about what to do tomorrow, planning for next year) and task-focussed work— and it is this very flickering between states that helps us to make important mental associations, thus fostering creativity.

And as I encourage my clients, when you walk after a meal, you lower your glycemic load, meaning your blood sugar levels fall. This supports your health in the long-term and can potentially alter the way your body stores fat.

So, imagine what happens when you combine these physical and mental fitness benefits, with that transcendental sense of awe that already reduces stress and inflammation 2 while increasing feelings of gladness?

How to incorporate awe walks into your daily life.

The slight issue many people I know have with the awe walk is that your phone has to be switched off, at least according to the version studied in Sturm’s research. But what if you are an active digital citizen and like taking photographs? Or what if you have ADHD like me and actually focus better when you sometimes peer through your camera lens because your brain has a task to orient upon?

My spin on an awe walk — as I’ve detailed in my book This Is What Matters— is something I’ve tested with others, and I love it because (1) you can also make memories with your phone, and (2) you can even do it in somewhere like Sephora if you so desire.

Here’s how to do it:

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Consider the structure of your walk.

First, consider how you’d like to structure your awe walk:

Would you do it alone or with others? What do you already love looking out for, that gives you that sense of awe? For many, it’s the moon, sunset, or sunrise. Or, it could be beautiful music or scents, or plants. Otherwise, it could be something you used to love, that you’ve temporarily forgotten and could rekindle.What are your favorite senses to engage? Visually, it could be something soothing (e.g. constellations in the night sky), dramatic (e.g. the view from the top of a mountain), or sumptuous and which elicits curiosity or fun (e.g. the aisles of your favorite beauty store or food hall). Sound-wise, it could be the echoes in an old cathedral or the waves sloshing indolently against the shore.When you encounter the above that you’ve identified, what do you do to engage further? Some people may take photographs, others sit and admire, while others research excitedly or tell related stories to whoever they’re with.Consider: How does doing that activity engage you further? For instance, the phone lens is a figurative focus for some people’s concentration, and researching engages others’ curiosity.When you compare your mood or headspace before engaging in that awe-eliciting activity, and then after, do you feel any different?

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Start building your list of places to take awe walks.

These are places you can engage with easily in your everyday life:

A park in your neighborhood. A different route on your daily walk or run; or at a different time of day.A part of your city or neighborhood you’ve never explored before. A fireplace or hearth; a lightning storm; the snow falling. A place that feels like your kind of sensorial buffet-- bookstore, drugstore, specialist supermarket, makeup store.

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These are places that you can plan for:

Looking up from a trail lined with tall trees or dense buildings; or looking around a large stadium. The shore of a body of water.A mountain, hill, or a restaurant in a skyscraper where you can watch the sunrise or sunset, or take in panoramic vistas. Somewhere with clear views of the night sky. A zoo or botanical gardens.A historic building like a theater, religious monument or mansion. A jungle, forest, or offshore island. A museum, gallery, planetarium or aquarium.

Two reflective questions you can engage in:

What places feel the most accessible to me, in terms of interest and logistics? In doing this list, how am I starting to see the potential in enjoying my everyday life differently?

Turn your phone off, or to Airplane Mode if you’d like to take photographs. Start with the mindset that you’re discovering things with fresh eyes, and that you’ll allow yourself to be curious and delighted.Anchor yourself with your breath: inhale deeply for six counts, feeling your belly expand, and exhale for six, feeling your belly contract. Feel the air move and hear the sound of your breath.Feel your feet on the ground as you walk, taking in the sounds around you. Shift your awareness to take in what’s around you, especially anything that feels unexpected, delightful, vast. Inhale for six, and exhale for another six.Allow yourself to explore what inspires awe in you, moving from the vast to the small, and vice versa. It could be the scale of what’s around you, the animals at play, or patterns of light and shadow. Every so often, inhale and exhale for six. As you anchor yourself, notice all that’s around that you’d otherwise would have never noticed. Immerse yourself in all your different senses, and notice what you enjoy the most.

The takeaway.

When we observe and appreciate the tiny wonders around us, an otherwise-benign walk where we’re not rushing for a change metamorphoses into time well-spent.

While taking a walk can’t magically fix the factors in your life that feel trying, it can be a reset button which helps you regain control of the wiser, more controlled parts of your brain. And then, refreshed and reset, you can go back into your life to thoughtfully work on changing what you no longer want. Your walk may also be that precious window in your day when you feel accomplished because you’ve exercised, grounded because you’ve reflected, or simply more connected to the world around you.

And the thing is, you can never run out of awe.

Every sunrise and sunset are never the same. There’s beauty lurking behind tempestuous skies. And we learn to appreciate vacations and special occasions more because we’ve trained ourselves to peer through the lens of Everyday Amazing. We train our brain’s reticular activating system to filter out unnecessary information like distracting thoughts, so we take in more delight.

And we can heartily, gratefully tell ourselves, “Thank you for showing up for me.”